Tuesday, September 17, 2013

What Is Love?

                                                           What is Love?           
      
         Mom is scurrying around the kitchen making her wonderful crème brule French toast and quiche. Dad is outside shooting baskets with their two children. When the food is done cooking, she calls everyone in for dinner. The family sits down, says grace, and digs into the delicious food. At the table the family talks about each other’s day, and even plays the “would you rather…” game, filled with smiles and laughs.
         Taking time out of your busy day for a family meal together…that is Love.
        
         Jalynn’s best friend, Naomi, is sick and had to miss school. Jalynn tells the teacher that she’ll grab Naomi’s books and homework information, so Naomi doesn’t fall behind. Before Jalynn stops at Naomi’s house, Jalynn gets Naomi a little gift and brings her some warm chicken noodle soup and a Sprite. Jalynn surprises her best friend and offers to help with homework and stay awhile. Naomi thanks Jalynn for the soup, Sprite, and gifts. She also takes Jalynn up on helping with homework and staying awhile.
         Being there for a sick friend and helping out, when you don’t have to be…that is Love.

         On a beautiful summer day a gorgeous woman in white, gets escorted down the isle by her father, all the while, she has her eyes glued to a handsome man in a tux. Their hands embrace and they happily tell each other their vows; vows that put the other first in sickness and health. They say the two magic words “I Do”, and seal it with their first kiss as man and wife.
         The act of a man and woman becoming one through marriage…that is Love.

         A happily married man and woman, have been trying to have children for years but can’t. They decide they want to make their house a home. They start doing research on the Internet, through church, and friend inquiry. They decide on an agency and go through the long and thorough process. Then on a beautiful winter day, with snow glistening in the sun, the couple waits at the airport. Each minute feels as long as an hour as they count down the minutes of the plane’s arrival. Finally the plane rolls into its gate and a flood of people start rushing off to continue on with their lives. At the end of the line they see an agent holding an infant from South Korea. As the boy gets handed over to the married couple, they become a family and their house becomes a home.
         Adopting a child and taking him as your own…that is Love.

         A twenty-eight year old is surrounded by relatives and close friends as she holds onto his wedding ring in one hand, in the other she holds a Curious George stuffed animal. All the while, his life will never be the same, as he goes under the knife to remove a perfectly healthy kidney. In an operating room nearby the owner of the Curious George toy is waiting to receive a new kidney from the only perfect match they could find…his father
         Giving a kidney for the possibility of having a healthy child…that is Love.

         Tina is finally feeling that she has friends at her new high school, because she got invited to a party with the popular girls. When Tina asks her parents if she can go, they talk to her about the girls she is now friends with. They also discuss how excited their daughter is to be “popular”, but are old and wise enough to know that these girls are fake and probably up to no good. They tell Tina she can’t go. Tina is furious at first, but later found out that the “popular” crowd pretends to befriend someone just to make fun and humiliate them.
         Parent’s saying no to a party, they just know won’t end up good…that is Love.

         Lucy, a young single mom, was living paycheck to paycheck with her little child, trying to survive. She was trying to get them on their feet, but she couldn’t hold a job, because she kept getting fired because she’d run to her best friends alcohol and methamphetamine when life was too much to handle. She hit rock bottom and decided to give Teen Challenge a try, to give God another chance. She checked herself in, while her young son, went into foster care. After a hard, but successful recovery, she found a stable job, and found a place a small but good apartment for two. After, she had proved she was back on her feet; her little boy was able to return to her.
         Checking into rehab to get clean to make a better life for you and your child…that is Love.
        
         Melody is a high school student who loves the outdoors and looking at God’s beautiful creation. She believes it is important to take care of what God has given us. Every Monday morning she heads to school early and picks up the trash around the campus. Nobody is telling her to do this; she does it as an act of worship to God.
         Taking care of God’ creation because of your adoration for Him…that is Love.
        
         Just a boy, barely even eighteen, enlists himself in the army.  He had dreamed about being in the army ever since he was a little boy, as he wanted to defend his country that allows him to praise the name of the Lord without doing it in fear of losing one’s life, who gives him freedom to go to college, and choose his career instead of it being chosen for him. He wanted to fight for his country like his father did.  Little did he know this childhood fantasy of defending what he believed in and becoming a hero, would soon become a reality. As soon as he was done with basic training he was deployed to fight in the bloodiest World War of all time: World War II.
         Fighting for your country and possibly giving your life for it…that is Love.

         Violent whips breaking the skin, lash after lash. Thorns intruding into the head, with blood flowing fast. He was ordered to wear a robe, even as the blood dried and then was forced to take it off reopening the wounds. He dragged a large, heavy piece of tree uphill, after being beaten and flogged. He was mocked in the worst kind of ways. He was laid down only to have nails pounded through His hands and feet. Only to be placed vertically on a cross, with no water to drink, and it becoming harder and harder to breath. Taking the final breath and saying “It is finished.”

         Jesus died on the cross for YOU and me that we may live… that is TRUE LOVE.

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Becoming Dependent on God - Challange

          So last year for CHRISTmas, my wonderful college roommate Taylor gave me the daily devotional book called "Jesus Calling" by Sarah Young. To be transparent and honest with you, I wanted to do the daily devotional each day, but there have been times when I have missed days. Which basically means I need to have my priorities in the right place, and I challenge you to as well. I will say I have learned so much from doing this devo, and on Labor Day the devo made me think a lot and I decided to make a blog post on it.

          The title/first sentence of the devo read: LIVING IN DEPENDENCE ON ME is a glorious adventure.

          The verses for the day were: 2 Corinthians 12: 9-10; Acts 17:28; Colossians 2:6-7 and John 14:20.

          After reading the devo for this day, I couldn't help but think of the question: Why is it so hard to give our independence up and live dependently on Jesus?

          Now I want you to think about this, it isn't a hard concept to grasp or do. I have easily been dependent on my parents for most of my life, and yes, I'll admit, even a little too much at times. I ask them for things, I always know they will protect and take care of me, and they still do to an extent. It isn't the same as when I was younger, but I still trust them completely and know they'd never do anything to hurt me. But then, why is it so hard to fully depend on God? I mean it should be easier to depend on Him because of His love He has shown to us through Jesus dying on the cross for our sins, and the omnipotence He's shown us time and time again. He is all powerful and sinless, where us humans are imperfect and sinful. Because of our sin, our trust can easily be broken. So then, why are we scared to give ourselves fully over to God? Maybe it's because He is all powerful and anything can happen. Luke 18:27 says, " What is impossible with man is possible with God."- and that can be both comforting and terrifying. Putting your whole life in the hands of someone else can be scary because you don't know what they'll have you do. When you depend on your parents or other humans, you still have a lot of control yourself. I mean you're really completely dependent on your parents when you are an infant, and then you slowly grow more independent, but you're guided greatly through that long and slow transition. The only other time you may be fully dependent on others is when you are near death. Another thing to think about is that the people you depend on normally aren't going to have you do something that may seem impossible or improbable because they don't have the ability to do the impossible, but when God asks you or leads you to do something, you know it's possible, which can be paralyzing. Meaning you're too scared to move forward and don't want to go backwards, so you just sit. God has risen people from the dead, split the Red Sea in two, provided manna, He's made heroes out of the least of them, multiplies food, and has done many miracles. One miracle He has done that is really important to me, is healing my brother when he had a crucial surgery and the doctors almost gave up (full story in another post, coming in a few months).
          It may also be hard to become fully dependent on the Lord because you don't want to change. You like the way things are and don't want to be told what to do, what to give up etc. Maybe your priorities aren't straight and you are spending too much time idolizing different things, when God should be #1. When I say idolize, I don't necessarily mean a statue or a different religion, I mean what is most important in your life? Is it your job? social status? friends? sports? talents? celebrity gossip? your looks? your boyfriend? girlfriend? family? - and so much more. No, not all of those are bad, but if they are put before God, that isn't good. God should be #1 and other things should follow. Yes, yesterday I didn't have my priorities straight and ended up wasting time and skipping my devo. I need to prioritize daily and remember to put God first.
           One more reason why it may be hard to fully depend on God, is the pressure to live up to someone else's expectations. God is perfect and wants us to follow Him, yet we are not perfect. We need to accept that we aren't perfect, but not use that as an excuse to sin. We need to except that imperfection yet strive to be like Christ Jesus. God is also a God of mercy and grace, so we shouldn't worry about not living up to His expectations. He loves us and wants us to follow Him. He wants us to strive to be like Him, but we need to not be afraid to make a mistake, and become dependent on Him to lead us and guide us in His ways.
            All in all, there should be NO reason not to fully depend on God. My challenge for myself and you is to wake up each morning and commit your day to the Lord and fully depend on Him. Remember the W.W.J.D? bracelets? There were similar bracelets that read F.R.O.G. -> Fully Rely On God. That is my new challenge, to F.R.O.G. each and every second of each and every day.
          Should you choose to accept this challenge, welcome to the journey of your life. Remember Christ is in you and you are in Him! Together you make the perfect team! Enjoy the glorious adventure!
         - Jalynn

Two songs that go with today's blog are below:

Impossible - Newsboys  http://vimeo.com/56454863
Surrender- Joy Williams (now in The Civil Wars)                         https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/surrender/id268637604?i=268637709

Monday, September 2, 2013

Crossroads Corner Changed and Back!

Happy Labor Day!
 
        I originally started this as a Junior in college, and it was strictly going to be a music blog. I love music and want to share the wonderful powerful messages in the music. I also want to review secular music to share an opinion from a Christian perspective. Although I love music, I have realized there is much more I'd like to write about. I want to write about life in a sense. For example, I will have a blog posting later this week on the question: Why are we afraid of being fully dependent on God? I will blog about things I learn, there will be a few music blogs here and there, but basically it's going to be a blog about living a Christian life in the midst of a secular world. Which leads me to the blog's verse:

  "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is- His good, pleasing and perfect will."
            - Romans 12:2 (NIV)

       That verse sums it up perfectly. Life is getting sucked out of us as we get pre-occupied with everything but God and we turn into these conformed beings that play follow the leader and don't think for themselves. A modern-day analogy would be to compare the conformed to zombies. They are walking around lifeless as everyone else. I want to live boldly and on fire for God. I want to help bring God's light and life back into this zombified world. Let's bring light and love back into the world and live fearlessly for Him. As stated earlier I love music, and have a few songs that would go with this perfectly, but the one I'm going to share has been a life-song since around 2005. 

        It is called "Anti-conformity by Krystal Meyers https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/anticonformity/id287407186?i=287407204

        Here is a lyric video of the song, I found on youtube =)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWNQb4yQupo

             Hope your Labor Day has been great, let His light shine and be blessed!
                       Love,
                            Jalynn

P.S. - There will be more layout changes etc to come, as I'm new at this and learning all the time =)